Tonight my husband and I had a heart to heart. This is something we do often. In this heart to heart though, he confessed to me that he felt I had never forgiven him for not dancing. I danced 2-3 times a week in college and loved it. Not only was it a rush, but it was what kept me skinny (125 pounds skinny...haven't seen that number on the scale since). I thought a lot about it as we talked and I told him that I will not hold it against him anymore. He DOES have two left feet and really dancing with him would just be frustrating. I dance around the room with my kids to country songs now. I told him that I would forgive him of that if he would forgive me for imagining that I am dancing with my college dance partner instead of him.
To this he replied, "I could take him."
To which I responded, "There was never a doubt."
And there we buried the hatchet.
Is there something you have held back, something you have harbored, not forgiven? My challenge to you is to forgive...maybe it is a spouse, sibling, parent, child, friend, Yourself... let it go. You won't believe how good it feels.
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