In 2012 we challenged you to write 12 letters of Gratitude to people that influenced your life. Many of you did this and wrote amazing stories of the experience.
This year 2013 we are focusing on BEING PRESENT. This is your life. Each day is a gift. You can't turn in yesterday for more time. So make the most of each day and continue to be grateful and embrace life! Be Present! We are changing the world...ONE DAY AT A TIME!

Monday, January 30, 2012


Many years ago I went to visit a friend in another state.  We spend the day running around downtown.  On the way home someone was broken down on the side of the road.  The friend stopped to see if they could help.  My friend's neighborhood reminds me of that song, "Where I come from it's corn bread and chicken..." and down home folks who all know each other...  Um, nope, not where I come from.  Where I come from you just don't pull over to the side of the road.  Why?  Because people actually do get car jacked, and mugged, and killed...etc.  But it really makes me sad that it is like that.  My husband forbids me to stop and help anyone.  Not because I don't want to, but because he wants me alive tomorrow to raise our broad of children.

But with all that said, road side assistance is not the only way that we can help in this world.  There is so much that we can do.  We can volunteer, give to local charities, help at a soup kitchen.  We can work through local churches that have out reach programs all over the world.  My church and the local Catholic church have had a loving, working relationship with each other for years.  Recently they had a need for extra peanut butter.  It has a long shelf life and is a good source of protein that does not need refrigeration.  I think when they asked us they were hoping for a few dozen jars.  But word was spread through out our 5 local congregations and over 1,000 jars of peanut butter were collected.  It was so simple, such a small thing.  But for someone it will make a big difference.  I told my husband, I am not taking generic (we sometimes eat generic brands)...I said, just so you know I am getting Jif or Skippy.  Because if it was me...that would be a comfort to see that Jif label.

So, although I won't be helping anyone change their tires on the major highways of our busy state, we can all make a difference.  It might be as little as a jar of peanut butter.  It might be listening to a friend that is struggling with a child.  It might be letting our spouse vent about work.  (My sweet spouse often lets me vent about my job...24/7 homeschooling mommy of five...God bless him for listening!!!)

My challenge to you is to might I "help" someone.  Look at the word in more broad could be so many things.  Be conscious...and look for ways to help!  You might be helping already and not even realize it.  My friend that was really struggling last year...was such an inspiration to me...she was a huge help in the development of The Butterfly Project.

You are amazing!  But sometimes we are our own worst enemy...STOP THAT!  Be kind to you!  And help!

Changing the world...ONE letter at a time!

1 comment:

  1. I remember the night we helped the lady on the on ramp that had a little one walking & one in a stroller 2 women I believe we were sent to serve. It's one of the things I remember when I can't always "serve" in big ways or little ones @ times.